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4 Reasons Why a Man Might
Cheat

Cheat and get caught and you’ll pay the
price, which is often the severing of a longstanding and loving relationship.
Why take that risk?

Not that this excuses him in any way, but
here are four reasons a man might give to justify cheating on his wife,
according to Men’s Health editor-in-chief David Zinczenko, who is also the
author of "Men, Love & Sex: The Complete User’s Guide for Women"
and "The Abs Diet" series of books.

1. To fulfill his biology
It’s Darwinian! "A man’s main job, besides killing the saber-tooth, is to
spread his seed in order to ensure the survival of his genetic legacy,"
says Zinczenko. "It’s a man’s biology to want to wander." Of course,
he’s quick to point out that doesn’t mean men should wander. Still, the
biological urge will be strong.

2. To get attention
Some men cheat because they aren’t having frequent sex at home, but others who
do have frequent sex at home still cheat. Why? "Because cheating isn’t
just about the sex," asserts Zinczenko. "Just as a woman who cheats
may be seeking more affection than what she’s getting at home, a man often
cheats because he’s seeking the attention that he no longer gets at home."
A new woman has a certain allure and mystery. Add to that a bit of flirtatious
seduction, and many men just can’t resist–no matter how good they have it at
home.

3. To get out
Some men want to get out of their marriage, but they don’t have the guts to
properly end it. So they cheat in an attempt to drive their wife away. For some
men, "the only way out is to commit the relationship sin that drives a
woman away for good. It’s not right, but it’s what happens," admits
Zinczenko.

4. To change up his play list
File this under excitement. A long and loving marriage is often about comfortable
routine. For some men, that routine may be boring. A new relationship adds zing
and spice to life. Take heart, wives. "What men really want in
relationships (and what I suspect women also want) is to be able to take
comfort in the routine of a long-term commitment, as long as there are some
surprises that make it feel like a new relationship every once in a
while," asserts Zinczenko.

–From the Editors at Netscape

-VAMT
REACTION-

This
is an article from the net where I consider very helpful on my part, yet very
educational… but as of many who read this article…most of them had a
Eyebrows Rises (mostly woman) and many were "OH YA…" of course it
will be the reaction of most men…..

I
consider my self as a rational thinker….most of my reader could disagree…but
I can’t help my self….so here it is…..

• To fulfill his biology –   For me it is the ultimate ably men could ever say…Yes men have the eagerness to hunt a prey and smack her with
  his club then pull her hair to his cave…every Stone Age….. I love woman…. I
  love my girl…my sister and my mother…. So I’m rely not agree.

• To get attention -   For me it is a
       Justification……Most men are born to be leaders…Men should be have a Guts to
  lead his Girl and His Family to the fulfill ness he could possibly be… Have less
  attention on his capably and less caressing from his wife or girl could boast
  down the man vision of being a leader… and fell that he is just a provider… So
  Men seek for something who he could control and paying her/his attention and
  caressing him…So I’m agree….

• To get out -   For me it is a form of  tactics..but a cowardly one…It is said to be a easiest form escaping…Doing that she don’t like…it the
  perfect tactics of Breaking –up …..Very Much Agree…

• To change up his play list - For me it is a same as
       the First one….On this case I would say it’s just a lock of excitement and being bored…a
  simple yet effective advice… Do thing as if it’s your first and you have no tomorrow
  coming… so Not agree…

My reaction is based
only on my Rational thinking and no Scientific or some kind basis…

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